Saturday, April 25, 2009

Rach and I's Adventure in Xining

Rach and I headed to Xining a few weeks ago to get a weekend away. Xining is my tutor's hometown so I've heard many great things about it - also famous for Qinghai Lake (if you wanted to walk around it, it would take 23 days), its Yak Yogurt, and the Tibetans (Xining is in Qinghai Province and borders Tibet).

Rachel and I had no idea what kind of adventure we were about to get ourselves into!

View of the lake when we got there (completely frozen across)

We rode the train for 14 hours and then had to take a bus for 3 hours to get to the lake. When we first arrived there was just a small strip of small shops and restaurants mostly all closed. Most people travel to the lake during the summer, so by going in March the little town was almost empty.

We first arrived and a guy on a motorcycle rode up and offered to take us to the lake for 20kuai, we thought it was odd and strange and decided we would walk instead to the tourist part. When we arrived, we saw it was 50kaui and that most of it was all closed down inside. Our friend on the motorcycle had driven over to us again and was offering to take us to the lake and to a place where we can ride horses. We asked him lots of questions to make sure it was safe... he said in Chinese, "I'm not going to trick you, of course you can trust me, I'm Zang minority (thats Tibetan)!"

He didn't have the most convincing argument, but we knew he was only taking us down the street (because we had packs). So, Rach and I looked at each other and decided we would allow him to take us (this is a very common thing in China -its similar to taking a taxi, but instead its a motorcycle - we sometimes do it in our hometown-just so you know it wasn't an uncommon situation).

This is where he took us!

The Tibetan girls we met who let us ride their horses

Rach and I riding
Our new friend suggested the perfect place for us to stay... totally surprised that there was a mattress (I'm used to sleeping on a hard mat when traveling)! Even better getting to sleep on a large piece of carpet!


This was the conversation we had in Chinese:
Rach and I: "Is there heat?"
Xiao Didi (translates as 'little brother' -what he preferred us to call him) "a small space heater will be provided-which will turn on when we turn on the electricity at night"
Rach and I: "Where is the shower?"
Xiao Didi: : "Uh... what shower... we don't have one (most places didn't)."
Rach and I: "Do you have running water?"
Xiao Didi: "You'll get hot water in the morning."
Rach and I: "Where is the bathroom?"
Xiao Didi: "uhh... Suibian (translates as 'whatever/wherever')... and its only 20kuai a night..."

'Suibian' bathroom meant -we would be going outside in the field around the corner of the house (also very usual thing there) Rach and I looked at each other and started laughing and quickly said "yes we'll take it!"


We knew we were in for roughing it!

Rach and I were enjoying the warm yak milk we were given!

The view from the back of the house


This is one way of how we stayed warm! These are usually found in homes in China where there is no electric heat. We sat around this for a few hours drinking warm yak milk and trying to stay warm (usually heated by coals... however they used cow chips).

However, something was wrong with the pipe... so after 30 minutes... the room filled with smoke... I'm telling you this because by the time we went to bed it had been two days since we showered.. we had trained all night, then took a 3 hour bus ride, rode horses, it was very sandy, and then sat in a room full of smoke -we smelled! And there was no shower. I used the water from my bottle to wash my face and brush my teeth that night outside (it was such a fun experience)!

This is what we woke up to... SNOW! On the ground! (not a whole lot... but enough to make the night before freezing cold).

This is me with our 'hot water' in the basin the next morning trying to get cleaned up outside.

I went down and sat near the lake and watched as shepherds led their sheep across the land! I sat there for long time just reading my book.



It was mid morning and we walked up to the strip to try and catch a bus to go back into the city. However, learned that the buses don't stop near the strip. They just lay on the horn and honk as it speeds by and if your standing outside at the time and can wave it down (if its nice enough to stop) then it will.

Xiao Didi took us to wait in their friend's house (which was also a pharmacy) so we wouldn't have to wait outside (it was really cold outside and the wind chill was bad). So we agreed that we would all wait inside and when Xiao Didi saw a bus coming through the window he would run outside and try and wave it down...

About three buses had gone by and unfortunately Xiao Didi's method wasn't working. We waited inside for about 2 1/2 hours watching Tibetan music videos with our new friends... and decided we needed to go outside and wait ourselves if we ever wanted to get home.

Rach and I waited outside shivering and trying to stay warm. We decided to walk down the strip... and saw a huge tourist bus (out of no where). We walked into the restaurant where all the people were.... and desperately asked them if they were headed back into the city and if they had any room left. They said 'yes' and were willing to give us a ride back.

Rach and I climbed on the bus and sat in the back row. When the singing and karaoke started... Rach and I just looked at each other... we both weren't surprised when they said we had to sing - that was our way of paying for our ticket back into the city...

Well... the tourist bus stopped a few times on the way back... and while everyone climbed off the bus to take pictures... Rach and I just happened to fall asleep (thankfully and fortunately for them they didn't have to hear me sing).



This is picture/view is also very common in my city... a Hui (Muslim -ethically Chinese) selling meat

Rach and I stayed Saturday night in the city and explored. Xining is filled with Tibetans and Hui people.


This is the Dongguan Mosque (famous for its size and the history- built in 1380).

It sure was an unforgettable adventure with Rachel travelling to Xining. I'm thankful I got to see just another small part of this huge, vast, and beautiful country. And see another people group (the Zang- Tibetans) and make some new friends (there are 56 different ethnic groups in China).

Sunday, April 5, 2009

2nd Day of the Wedding!

The second day of the celebrations was complete madness and awesomeness (this word is in the dictionary)! We headed to Big Momma's house at 12 and the celebrations and partying had begun!! We hung out with the family in their house for a little bit and then it started...



The preparations


The mass amounts of food being prepared!


Some of us waiting to eat

The result-deliciousness! Spicy Jiaozi



Then as we were sitting there... these mysterious yet very interesting large paper machete heads were placed on the table...



People began to take to the streets....

And filled the alleyways...

Then the horse costume was put on!

Different family members and friends paraded around wearing it... we learned this is part of the wedding custom

Then preceeded to watch the 'helemet/mask' and horse costume be put on Sean!

These are some of the kids I was playing with

However... it wasn't long until we all three got the masks put on us

Some of our friends

Then we were told that we were the ones who were going to wear the costumes and help be apart of the parade... it was tradition to have a parade and take the bride to her new house. Since we were the ones wearing the masks, they informed us it was our job to entertain... jumping up and down and dancing...

I called it a 'football helmet,' and it was huge! I couldn't see through it at all, I would try and grab onto Rach's arm to help guide me. Family members who knew us... would come up and pound down on the top of the helemet and yell at us to either go faster, slower, or dance more. However, each person had their own opinion on what they wanted us to do... so Rach and I were continiously being hit.

Rach and I wore the masks... and you can see Sean wore the horse costume... we made complete fools of ourselves dancing around... however the family really enjoyed it and was happy.

This is the bride being carried behind us

When we got to the bride's new house this is how we found the groom! He's the one on the right side. This is also a tradition where the best man and the groom get chained up, shoe polish, and then they get humiliated infront of everyone.



This was the parade of people that followed behind us and infront of the couple's new apartment


This is inside the bride's house in her living room. Everyone walks through the new house looking through everything. The house is packed with people!


It was an eventful weekend!!

Here is the link to watch clips from the weekend CLICK HERE FOR THE VIDEO!